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Why You Feel Behind on Your Book (And What to Do Instead)
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Why You Feel Behind on Your Book (And What to Do Instead)

If you’re writing a novel or memoir and you can’t shake the feeling that you’re somehow running out of time — this episode is for you.

In today’s episode, I’m talking about one of the most common and most painful stories writers carry: the belief that the book should already be done, that you’re behind, that everyone else is further along. And I want to challenge that story directly.

Because here’s what I’ve come to believe after years of writing and working with writers: writing a book is not a single event. It’s a practice. And when you start treating it like one — when you bring long-game thinking to your creative life — something genuinely shifts.

In this episode, I share:

  • Why treating your book like a finish line is keeping you stuck

  • The one question that changes how you approach your manuscript every day

  • What it actually means to build a sustainable writing practice

  • How to get unstuck when your draft isn’t working the way you hoped

  • Why the writers who finish books they’re proud of are the ones who stopped rushing and started tending

Whether you’re working on your first novel, somewhere in the middle of a memoir, or trying to restart a writing practice that’s gone quiet — this one’s for you.

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